Are you sure, you are Indian ?

Are you sure, you are Indian ? I really want to ask this question to those guys who start talking rubbish about their own motherland after going abroad. I have come across many such morons here in New Zealand and not only New Zealand I am damn sure these kind of people are everywhere. I really wonder how someone could betray there own country, at least for me If you don't have any respect towards your own country you are pretty much betraying your own nation, Don't you have any shame or patriotism about your country ?

Unfortunately, I have at least faced 7 guys till the date who just hate India and that is why they have come here to study and live, I mean I am not imposing love for the nation or patriotism on those guys but at least have some gratefulness towards that country which has given you pretty much everything till now and still giving everything to your family, loved ones. It has given shelter, protection from external powers, education, good lifestyle, employment to you and to your family, money prosperity because of which You could ever afford to fly down there, have you forgotten everything ? and now you just land up in better environment and surrounding which seems really attractive and glorious, you have started discriminating your own country, Oh come on !! Then I really don't give damn shit about such morons. Many of them really don't  know anything about India although they are Indian (unfortunately at least on Passport) still they comment on everything with full authority- "India has pretty much nothing", "you can not achieve anything in India", "Corruption" the most discussed and favorite topic for such losers, and then I asked immediate question to these people "Then why your family is still there? I mean if you really hate so why did you live there? you could have migrated way back and also could have taken your family somewhere in hell ?" I actually did ask this question with the response that " such questions are good for arguments ".

Some of them are way ahead in all these things, they don't only hate India, They hate Indians only, If you have gone for dinner in some Indian restaurant, you will observe that hotel manager giving excellent service to everyone except his own countrymen. As soon as you enter the restaurant, You will get a most ridiculous look as if you have entered to eat free and cold shoulder, I am not making it generic, not all Indian restaurant or Indians out here are like this but most of them are, they really are. This is what Indians have done till now and that's why British could ever rule our country for hell 150 long years. We don't have unity, we don't have love, forget about love not even gratefulness about our country. I always look at Chinese people, the way they live and maintain relationship with their fellow countrymen and I am always surprise the way they do represent their country here. They have good unity, many of my Chinese classmates they really don't like anyone talking shit about China and on contrary I can hardly find any Indian who couldn't hear any shit about India.

Just because you got an opportunity and your dad has his pocket full, you have reached here and that certainly doesn't mean you should start commenting on your own origin and forget from where you actually belong, just by reaching here in foreign land you have not proved your credentials. I seriously don't respect this kind of people who don't have any gratitude. If you are not grateful, You will not achieve anything in life, its all meaningless then. 

Introspection & Guru or Mentor

In one famous Marathi movie there is a dialog, "When we are alone or we are at some isolated place way away from our loved ones, we think a lot about ourselves". This is very appealing dialog (Ideally for everyone), I guess she was talking about 'Introspection', really classy word and always seems very difficult to understand, I am always in a puzzle what exactly is this introspection ? I do know the dictionary meaning, but I always wonder to apply it. I tried doing it but honestly its freaking difficult to understand and apply. First thing is your self ego which will take you away from pin pointing your mistakes like the way I always did, When I tried assessing my own way of thinking & mental process somehow I became stubborn, " No I was right whatever I did was correct", and it took hell long to overcome this problem while meditating.

We always try controlling our ego I mean we at least say so, but I hardly manage sometimes 'Now' after specific efforts. Introspection has very strong correlation with meditation and without knowing your own self and without introspecting I don't think anyone could ever do the proper meditation for achieving that higher self within ourselves. I guess we need to understand ourselves deeply before going for next step. When someone could actually introspect himself/herself completely then only that person could go for achieving that higher power through meditation, even Swami Vivekananda has said "All power is within you" , "Believe in yourself" . We need to understand ourselves first and this is what I felt till now.

I think, Guru plays an important role in this matter and give direction to our life and to achieve that particular motto of our life. We have to have one good learned guru, if we want to gain some knowledge especially something like Introspection, Astrology, spirituality, meditation. I don't think so without any Guru you could get the expertise in these fields, and you need to be extraordinarily lucky in order to get that kind of guru to whom you can ask pretty much anything and everything and He will guide you through. These are so rare things to get in our life, not everyone could get it, so those who actually have someone like mentor or Guru I am pretty sure they are endowed with the blessings of that almighty as they have someone to direct.